You would feel more appreciated by your boss, peers, friends, partner, children, family, neighbors… everyone. Every day you’d feel valuable. You’d be far more productive because you saw the positive impact your actions created. You’d feel welcome, supported, included, valued.
Instead of teaching our kids that they’re beautiful and smart, because we already know this to be judgmental, we teach them that they can achieve anything they choose to and they’re accountable to themselves and others.