It’s a typical response: I’ve always been this way… or… All INTJs are like this. The indulgence of your weaknesses is a choice.
There’s a trend forming… we are now expecting others to take accountability for our emotions.
It was surreal.
Clients ask: How do I respond “normally” to…
Thing is, “normal” isn’t for everyone.
How do you know where you need to improve? Where do you start? Let’s kick off the new year with some actionable steps.
And they say INTJ’s are without emotion, ha! We have them, we’re simply selective in how we nurture and share them.
I can’t tell you how many clients tell me they avoid conflict. The reason usually given is that it’s too stressful and they’d rather wait for the “emotional aspect” to die down. Let me be clear, avoiding conflict only works in one circumstance. And it’s not the one you think.