A monthly round up of questions asked by you!
When you’re asked questions, or assume possible conflict, do you become defensive? Why?
You know your authentic self, you’ve been working on emotional maturity, you’ve committed to constant learning… communication is sharing this with the world.
… and I don’t mean coins. Change is required for growth, but what’s the best way to manage change?
INTJs are masters at absorption and have an unquenchable thirst for learning… so we don’t see conflict as a negative. We do, however, view emotional over-reactions as inappropriate and idiotic. Here’s how to have conflict with an INTJ…
I can’t tell you how many clients tell me they avoid conflict. The reason usually given is that it’s too stressful and they’d rather wait for the “emotional aspect” to die down. Let me be clear, avoiding conflict only works in one circumstance. And it’s not the one you think.